How We FEEL about Lingerie
Most people in longer term relationships slip into this pattern of routine, and lingerie doesn't typically make the cut. Between work, the kids, the gym, planning food, and the busy lives we live. Taking extra time getting sexy isn't really on the top of our list. We hear it time and time again:
I'm not really a lingerie person.
It's not that it doesn't appeal to me. It's just that the few times I've worn it, I've felt fake
I feel better naked.
My partner isn't that into it
I feel silly dressing up for someone who'd seen me naked so many times
The truth is, yes, it may take a couple glasses of wine, or a shot or two to get over the initial nervous jitters but putting on that extra soft satin outfit that hugs your curves in all the right places will unlock so much more.
When you slip into that lingerie, the one thing we can tell you is be ready. Be ready for the compliments, the looks, the intrigue. Think about the one major rule that even business knows, sex sells, you know men like when women wear sexy stuff. Even if your partner isn't the “lingerie” type, they will not be irritated by seeing you looking good for them.
Another perk to wearing lingerie, you effortlessly dominate anything that competes for your partners attention (Bye, phone!). Once it clicks that your partner has a chance to get lucky for the night, especially if you have been in a drought, the chase is on. The conversation starts, the attention is turned to you and your intimacy is a guarantee.
We want you to stop denying yourself, put on that sexy black nighty, that red leather garter, that satiny pink slip, that lacey white boudoir that shows just a little too much. Let yourself be the image that captures your partners attention and let go in the bliss!